NaBloPoMo - Choices

For some reason, I am having a terrible time coming up with something to blog about tonight...I know that NaBloPoMo weekends are for "freewriting" but it is late and I am having trouble coming up with inspiration to write about a topic.  So, I am going to use the NaBloPoMo prompt from yesterday:

Would you rather make your own choices or have someone make them for you?

A or B?  This or that?  Chicken or fish?  Life is full of choices - some are easy, while others are not.  I am not good at making the actual decision about one choice or another, but I like to have an impact on the decision made.  

A prime example of this is when the hubs and I are planning to go to dinner...  The conversation usually goes something like this:

Me: "Would you like to out for dinner tonight?  
The hubs:  "Of course!"
Me: "Where do you want to go?  Your choice." (I tend to offer the hubs the choice for most meals because he is much more of a foodie than I.  It is just easier for him to pick the place.)

Hubs: "We could go get Mexican."
Me:  "I am not really feeling Mexican."
Hubs:  "Well, how about Chinese?  We can run errands near (insert restaurant), then get an early dinner."
Me: "I am not really feeling Chinese either."  

Hubs:  "We aren't getting anywhere.  Can't you just pick a place?"  (Obviously, he and I think differently...  He thinks it would be easier for me to just pick, but if I pick I have the "pressure" of knowing that I might pick something he doesn't really want.  Dang double-edged sword!)
Me:  "No.  I am not going to pick.  There are two of us and we should both agree.  I am going to count to three and you should name off 2 places you want to go.  I will find something on one of the menus.  "

In the end, we usually come up with a mutually acceptable place to eat...  However, it isn't without some work.  The restaurant example is just a small piece of the big picture.  Unfortunately, this applies to almost everything in our lives as a couple.  The poor hubs....He is  a patient man!  

I want the choice, but I don't want to choose.  Yes, I know that it is not really realistic, but that's just how I roll.